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Charmain Naidoo

Charmain Naidoo is a journalist and regular Thought Leader contributor

In March this year, the British Office for National Statistics showed that in 2021, one in five women aged 45 was childless — that’s 18% compared to the 13% of women in their mother’s generation who did not become parents. Graphic: John McCann

A global generation’s child decision

What’s the motivation behind the world’s decision to bear less children in the 21st century?

Police clear the remnants of protest action in Jeppestown, Johannesburg. File photo by Ihsaan Haffejee/Anadolu Agency/Getty Images

South Africa is lawless because South Africans are all lawless

We are angered by corruption but we shouldn’t be because we are not above giving a traffic cop ‘a cold drink’ or breaking the law in numerous other ways

Johannesburg’s inner city. Cities in Africa can benefit from genuinely affordable financing. Photo: Delwyn Verasamy, M&G

Joburg has lost its seat among the world’s iconic capitals

As heartbreaking as it is to admit, our beloved city is travelling down a path of no return

Horror: Dresden was reduced to ruins by Allied bombing. Photos: Hulton-Deutsch Collection/Getty Images & Sovfoto/Universal Images Group/Getty Images

Will we ever grasp the utter futility of war?

Seeing upfront the consequences of violent conflict for people – for generations – is shocking

In the spirit: A shopping mall in Bangkok, with its lights, streamers and colours, shows how Christmas should be celebrated. Photo: Mladen Antonov/AFP

Grinches have stolen this Christmas

It should be lights, jingles and feasts but this year the HoHoHo-ness of it all has been undone by Phala Phala and Russia’s invasion of Ukraine

Just as the fragile jacaranda flowers drop, so too does Johannesburg’s water and electricity supply (Photo by Gallo Images/Lefty Shivambu)

Joburgers flee the purple paradise

Just as the fragile jacaranda flowers drop, so too does the city’s water and electricity supply

Enough now: Residents of Soweto took to the streets in June this year to protest against power cuts. Photo: Ihsaan Haffejee/AFP

‘Father’ Cyril Ramaphosa, the Eskom family meeting invoked our ire

The president’s family chat on TV served only to leave South Africans in the dark and fuel our fury

Queen Elizabeth II puts on lipstick in the Royal Box at the Windsor Horse Show on May 11, 1985. Prince Phillip was about to enter the dressage ring with his horse team. (David Levenson/Getty Images)

The Queen was my mother’s style icon, but my dad wasn’t a fan

I felt curious grief, gut-wrenching sadness at the passing of a woman I did not know and had never me

Women at train station in Ukraine. Image: Supplied

The global tentacles of the Russian invasion of Ukraine have touched me too

With the war pushing up gas prices, Europe faces a cold, dark winter of load-shedding – which sounds familiar. But what is the solution?

London’s changed – including the climate

The local shops have been replaced by chain stores, the skyline has new features, the digital age stops communication and the green parks are dry and brown

When real-life stories are stranger than the apparition of a UFO

Canoeing with the contents of a cash-stuffed couch, skyrocketing airfares, dialling back women’s rights to last century … suddenly my family’s secret sighting seems tame

Temptation: The chocolate flowed on the perfect cake but the size-zero women resisted. Obesity is said to account for 80% to 85% of the risk of developing type 2 diabetes. Photo: GMVozd

The cruelty of chocolate cake denied

Indulging in delicious, sugary food is a delight but the consequences are being tired, breathless, lethargic and bloated — especially for a diabetic

Winter’s frigid embrace awaits us

As we enjoy the last few weeks of autumn with its bright colours, remember that the rigours of winter are just around the corner

‘I am my mother in ways that surprise me’: Charmain Naidoo and her mother, Norma, after Charmain obtained her  BA degree in 1980.

Like mother, like daughter

We try to be different to our mothers yet we become more and more like them

RPIN, UKRAINE — MARCH 4, 2022: Civilians, mostly women and children rush to board any train car that still has any room on it, as the sounds of battle Ð gunfire and bombing Ð fighting between Russian and Ukrainian forces draw closer to the city of Irpin, Ukraine, Friday, March 4, 2022. (MARCUS YAM / LOS ANGELES TIMES)

Refugees: The fallout of all wars

In World War I, millions of people fled Germany and millions fled when Germany occupied their countries; in Ukraine, it’s estimated four million will flee; and around the world…

Beating the drink demon: A wild story about seeking sobriety

Stopping drinking is easy. Staying stopped is hard. But Charmain Naidoo is proud to have been sober for 15 years

In this photo illustration a close-up of a positive coronavirus lateral flow test can be seen in front of a Christmas tree on December 26, 2021 in Cardiff, Wales. A revised version of alert level two measures was introduced on Boxing day at 6am to help mitigate the spread of the Omicron coronavirus variant. (Photo by Matthew Horwood/Getty Images)

‘Unclean!’ Or how to tell people you’re Covid-positive

After 20 months of caution, I let my guard down. Now I feel terrible

Panic at the border: South Africa’s clever scientists discovered the Omicron Covid-19 variant last week. (Ashish Vaishnav/Sopa Images/LightRocket/Getty Images)

The anomaly of Covid-19: Living in an in-between space

The coronavirus pandemic, and ensuing variants, mean we can’t make plans without the prospect of last-minute cancellations. But there’s precious little we can do about it

(John McCann/M&G)

We danced our way to the Earth’s demise

We were warned at least 65 years ago but have only now started to talk about the climate crisis

A moveable feast: Being able to track delicious restaurant-quality food to one’s doorstep is a pandemic positive. (Simon Dawson/Bloomberg via Getty Images)

Oh joy, my lockdown food is on its way

The pandemic dates us all and has changed us all. Our Netflix and Uber Eats profiles are proof