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Kagure Mugo is the intoxicatingly scary gatekeeper of HOLAAfrica, an online pan-African queer womanist community dealing with sexuality and all things woman. She is also a writer and freelance journalist who tackles sex, politics and other less interesting topics. During weekends she is a wine bar philosopher and polymath for no pay.
Someone’s watching you. Sometimes they’re invisible, other times not. What does their behaviour mean?
There’s nothing unmasculine about a woman pleasuring a man in his anus
Send the pic, but take measures to prevent more exposure than you wanted
The idea that violence is heterosexually defined silences same-sex victims
But in trying to be supportive, allies sometimes get it all wrong
Women viewers are increasing and that could help to usher in the sex revolution we are hankering after
Half-naked, oiled-up, gyrating male strippers. We want this but think we can’t be seen to do so
And the Oscar for best orgasm depicted in a biopic goes to … Kagure Mugo
Queer people had only the heterosexual space for early lessons in sexual identity
We need to air our own complicity in muting the voices of sexual assault victims
The kink world is one filled with safe words, sexual contracts and conscious conversations
Most important is to remember that sex is a conversation and discussion is key
Polygamy is for men seeking mini empires. Polyamory requires talk and thoughtfulness
Slipping a condom off during sex without partner’s consent is disrespectful and dangerous
Tinder is to sex what microwaves are to food prep: quick and easy, with a touch of danger
Parents and their offspring find it hard to talk openly about sex, but they should.
Greater efforts need to be made to reflect all experiences of the LGBTI community.
The internet treated it like the next Brangelina breakup.
There is much more to enjoying fulfilling and safe sex than just Pornhub mechanics.
The condonation of rape at the highest level of government brings all women’s lives under attack.
