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Milisuthando Bongela

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Milisuthando Bongela

Milisuthando Bongela is the Mail & Guardians arts and culture editor. She is a multi award-winning writer, blogger and collaborator. She has experience in the arts having worked in fashion, music, art and film as well as a decade-long career in consulting, entrepreneurship, blogging and cultural activism. She is also directing a documentary about hair and black identity, a film she calls the report card on the rainbow nation project.

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

All the knowledge we do not know yet

"Recovering ancient hidden knowledges, as long as we are responsible with them, is important considering how many ills there are in our society."

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

The art of everyday help

If we can relinquish the smallest of responsibilities under the guise of creating employment, what of the bigger responsibilities on a national level?

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

Heal yourself by healing your ancestors

"Our very presence on Earth is to heal the broken parts of ourselves in collaboration with those who came before us."

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

What we are hinges on respect

"Iintloni are mere reminders of who we are underneath it all."

Anchor: Mourners at Orlando stadium in Soweto sing to celebrate the life of Winnie Madikizela-Mandela in April this year. Photo: Ihsaan Haffejee/Anadolu Agency

The quest for intonga yam

"I’m loathe to say we are the only ones in the world, but she is right about us being a people of song."

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

​Learning to trust curiosity over fear

"What a funny sight it would be to see power dynamics neutralised by something as ordinary as friendship".

Photo: Gemma Ritchie/ M&G

​What should journalists be writing?

"Who is speaking to this overwhelming sense that you are stranded in this tender yet violent place and you don’t know why or what it’s for?"

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

Where and from whom do we come?

"Should I be forgotten a hundred years from now, I want my relatives to know there are ways to remember that cannot be erased".

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

The chores that made us

"We had roles in our small domestic community. Roles that rendered us responsible and independent from our parents for things to do and ways to be."

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

Punishing rapists isn’t good enough

Is the articulation of anger helping to create more value around women’s safety, our lives and our needs in relation to the men in our society?

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

What is normal in a big, bad world?

"I felt compassion for the fact that they are cops in Johannesburg and, to them, this is a normal way to treat another human".

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

We are not meant to be alone

"uKukhapha is the bedrock of isiNtu. This untranslatable notion of uMntu ngumntu ngabantu".

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

What does blue-ticking mean for building trust?

How has our digital communication affected our relationship to the concept of seeing each other’s humanity?

As the most valuable piece of real estate in South Africa

The art of being opaque: Why Zeitz should open its books

The alleged improper conduct of the Zeitz MOCAA curator has raised questions about the transparency of a museum that is subsidised with public money

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

‘It’ was as delightful as it was disconcerting

As the decolonial project progresses, it’s important to learn to look outside of what written responses to colonisation can offer.

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

The bitter pill of being just to a meanie

After an encounter on the plane Milisuthando Bongela concludes that: “When given the choice to be right or to be kind, always choose to be kind.”

In her own right: Many mourn the death of Winnie Madikizela-Mandela

For Winnie

Milisuthando Bongela attempts to put into words who it was that has died

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

Some histories to keep our interracial friendship honest

"It’s not that I wanted to be white. But I wanted them to accept and like me and I was all too happy to jump through the hoops."

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

Recalibrating our responses

"In South Africa, fighting occupies the space between everything".

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

In search of real connections amid all the noise

"In the absence of living on a piece of land with my extended family… I yearn for this kind of connection in my modern life".