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Golden collaboration: Mabi Thobejane and Madala Kunene’s friendship began with a mutual admiration of one another’s musical styles. Photos: Delwyn Verasamy and Rogan Ward
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Madala and Mabi: It’s a thing that spans half a century

Madala Kunene and Mabi Thobejane have been making music and maintaining a friendship for over fifty years.

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

​Learning to trust curiosity over fear

"What a funny sight it would be to see power dynamics neutralised by something as ordinary as friendship".

En garde! Paris Saint-Germain’s forward, Kylian Mbappé, has a certain style, and has the makings of a ruthless Messi or Ronaldo. (Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images)

What does blue-ticking mean for building trust?

How has our digital communication affected our relationship to the concept of seeing each other’s humanity?

(Madelene Cronjé)

Slice of Life: Brotherhood’s indelible bonds

‘It wasn’t long before he had my name in ink as well’

A Liberian health worker disinfects a corpse after the man died in a classroom now used as an Ebola isolation ward in ­Monrovia

By the grace of you

Two friends talk about depression — a subject often brushed off until things fall apart

Matric Rage

Matric Rage

"We called it our Matric Rage, which I thought sounded accurate".

Drifting apart

This is the end

As true as the platitudes might be, good memories make letting go a long, painful process

Milisuthando (Photo: Delwyn Verasamy/ M&G)

The intimacies we often forget to politicise

"We had connected on another level, when I had not yet picked up the political lexicon that has ruined some of my other friendships".

The DA’s Gauteng premier candidate Mmusi Maimane.

Age ain’t nothing but a possibility

Inter-generational friendships are filled with teachable moments for this self-styled aunty

Polony

I just wanted to hear your voice

If we choose our friends, then family surely chooses us. Sometimes we’re lucky enough to have friends in family

Guatemalan President Jimmy Morales told the crowd at the American Israel Public Affairs Committee in Washington

The twin that was promised by the stars

"It was day one of our friendship, but I had already gone through so many of the friendship motions with this stranger".

She knows that at 41, I am the friend who will still cry with her as I did at the age of six, writes Zukiswa Wanner about her childhood friend

When I cry, you cry. We cry together

Solidarity is built when the tears flow easily between friends and laughter follows – binding them in mutual vulnerability

The bro code: Dominic Khumalo’s post showing solidarity with Mduduzi Manana

Silence perpetuates the violence

Eusebius McKaiser questions how friendship protects abusers.

There are parallels between the relationships of Zimbabwe and South Africa with their liberation war veterans.

Slice Of Life: ​To give another a life

Valerie saved a life by bumping into an old friend.

Lord, help me love Cecilia

Nyokabi Baiya tries to love her neighbour, but it turns out she’s the crazy person every African market is said to have.