Someone’s watching you. Sometimes they’re invisible, other times not. What does their behaviour mean?

There’s nothing unmasculine about a woman pleasuring a man in his anus

Half-naked, oiled-up, gyrating male strippers. We want this but think we can’t be seen to do so

And the Oscar for best orgasm depicted in a biopic goes to … Kagure Mugo

Queer people had only the heterosexual space for early lessons in sexual identity

Ordering women to stay virgins and not wear minis is akin to saying sex is a solo act

We are each other’s last hope because, frankly, the world out there does not love us.

Faking it with your partner or your one-night stand is a disservice to society. We have to move society forward through innovation and feedback.

Telling people that they must keep going is as helpful as "put some Dettol and cotton wool on that gunshot wound – it will heal right up".

It’s not fair that Senzo Meyiwa’s mistress has to carry the blame for his cheating ways.